um, Vanessa, is going through some serious drama-rama.Vanessa and her ex, Bryce (I'm changing all the names in this saga, btw), had dated for almost two years, but broke up this spring because he "needed space to find his own happiness."After lots of tears, Vanessa told Tara she felt betrayed and wasn't sure she could continue the friendship--the trust between them was gone.You’re like: You ask her about it and she’s like, “Oh, yeah, we have this in common, blah blah blah,” and you try to be cool about it but inside you’re like… You start to freak out, wondering what is going on. She promises you she would never betray you like that and swears nothing shady is happening.
It wasn't cool then, and it's not cool now. At first she’s so supportive and nice and says all the right encouraging things. She swears once again that nothing is happening between them, but you don’t believe her. A few days later, you see her write on his Facebook wall and you’re so mad you don’t know what to do. Then, out of nowhere, she starts to get weird about it whenever you bring up his name. A few weeks later, you find out (somehow) that she’s been really friendly with your ex. They knew Vanessa would be upset, he says, but she's overreacting and acting like a child.It ends with him declaring he's ready to forgive and move on to being friends.
Vanessa was yelling and crying, sure, but obviously this was a huge shock.