Unless you are well socialized, you can expect to be very lonely during these times. You will be unable to share details of your relationship with friends and family as you would in a normal relationship. You will never get to know his parents, his siblings, his children or his circle of friends unless he gets a divorce in the future, which again, is not where you are now.
That part of his life will be compartmentalized away from you, where it is entirely possible that he is fully integrated into your life, creating a major imbalance., may be a male who has absolutely no intention of divorcing his wife.
If this is the case, he respects women and is probably being honest about how the marriage went wrong. You could potentially spend years in the shadows of his life loving him and hoping for change only to find, in the end, all of your love was in vain.
If, on the other hand, he runs her down and blames the failure of the marriage solely on her you need to be extremely careful. It is best to avoid the situation altogether if possible, but if you find yourself in this predicament, you are not alone.
What you can expect when engaged in this type of relationships are a lot of spontaneous changes in your ability to see each other.
Expect last minute rendezvous at the drop of a hat, but .
If he does not give you an explicit time frame, you should leave him, this indicates he truly has no intention of divorcing.You need to be realistic, these situations can and do drag on for years.Set a time limit in your mind as to how long you are willing to wait on the sidelines keeping your own life on hold and stick to it.Try to regain some balance in this totally unbalanced situation.be ready to see him each and every time he can slip away because he suddenly is available unexpectedly.